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Unconscious patterns of self sabotage are often seen as significant impediments to one’s success.

Why do they happen and how can they be forever released?

Well in short there are a number of reasons for their existence such as:

1. I don’t deserve to be successful.

2. I’m afraid of success.

3. I’m afraid I might fail.

4. Fear of making mistakes.

5. Fear of taking full responsibility for one’s decisions and actions.

6. Fear that success will change me as a person.

7. Fear that success will cause others to take advantage of me.

And so on.

All of the above beliefs and feelings are pre-programmed into you from early childhood experiences in your family, or through interactions with others whose confidence you choose to accept. This programming is held deep inside of you and is just waiting to be called upon whenever you get too close to success.

In other words it is often two steps ahead of you and waiting to head you off at the pass.

What can you do about these programs? Well first it is important to recognize that they are there, that they are unconscious, that they must be made conscious and that by doing so the opportunity to flush them out once and for all exists.

The fact that they cannot be eliminated if you are not consciously aware of them is very important.

Now all such negative programming is sourced from negative memories that feed and anchor them into your being. These negative memories, by definition, have associated with them painful negative emotions which you have chosen to suppress from conscious awareness. They have been suppressed because you have been afraid of re-experiencing these painful feelings.

So what is being said here is that in order to release the negative programming one must first release the fear of feeling the painful feelings associated with them. Here I will take you through this first crucial step in your journey to success.

So we’ll begin with the fear of feeling and enduring painful feelings from the past (i.e. things such as sadness, shame, embarrassment, grief, guilt, anger, etc.)

What is the benefit to you of having this fear living inside you?

Well one might say that the fear allows me to suppress these painful feelings out of conscious awareness so that,

I won’t have to feel them, so that,

I can achieve a sense of relief, inner peace, a sense of calm, safety, security, so that,

I can function effectively in my daily life and achieve success, happiness and fulfillment.

One can not keep these fear dormant. They manifest them self in other area’s of your life.
Where have you in your own life have been on the road to success only to stop short before reaping the benifits of your hard work?

These self sabotaging patterns can be changed on the unconscious level easily and effortlessly.

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